Reinventing Yourself: How to Become the Person You’ve Always Wanted To Be

Once a year, I like to reread this great book by Master Coach Steve Chandler.   One of the metaphors he shares is the idea of the human spirit being like a campfire. Imagine that we’re camping and night falls and we light a fire to provide warmth and light.  The evening ends, we go

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What to do when Eliminating Client Pain Creates More Pain?

Students of the NeftTi community have heard me say this for years; “All attempts to eliminate pain in a complex system will create greater pain.”  Understanding this is imperative for helping professionals to work safely with a client’s emotional, physical or relational pain.  How do we do that with so much going for each individual

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A Revolutionary Post Trauma Growth Approach to Therapy/Coaching

Have you ever opened too many programs on your computer and it slows down, proceeding to refuse any of your commands?   Well, the same capacity issue is true for human systems. Most clients arrive into the therapy/coaching room with a capacity issue. The energetic demand on their nervous system is way more than the capacity

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When Don’t You Use a Client’s Exact Words in EFT/Tapping?

Getting questions from the brilliant clients in my group programs is possibly one of the favorite parts of my business – sharing the answer with you here is a close runner up! Today we’ll look at a guideline for ‘Even Though’ set phrases. And as with most guidelines, there are times when the rule applies

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